Master the People Side of Engineering
Emotional intelligence coaching for engineers who want to lead people and projects with clarity, empathy, and confidence without burning out.
Why Emotional Intelligence Matters in Engineering Leadership
Technical skill opens the door.
Emotional intelligence determines how far and how sustainably you go.
Engineers often step into leadership roles without formal support for:
• Managing emotional pressure and uncertainty.
• Navigating conflict and difficult conversations.
• Staying clear-headed when the stakes are high.
• Leading peers, former teammates, or cross-functional partners.
Without emotional intelligence, pressure turns into overload.
With it, leadership becomes steadier, more effective, and more sustainable.
How Coaching Works
Coaching sessions focus on real situations engineers face in leadership roles.
You bring:
- Real decisions you’re facing.
- Conversations that feel stuck or charged.
- Leadership moments that drain energy or confidence.
Together, we work on identifying what’s driving pressure and reaction and create a plan that aligns with how you want to lead.
This is emotional intelligence in action applied to real decisions, conversations, and leadership moments.
You’ll receive practical support for the human side of engineering leadership.
What Coaching Supports
Through coaching, engineers build the emotional intelligence needed to:
- Stay calm and present in difficult moments
- Navigate conflict without avoidance or escalation
- Communicate clearly without shutting down or over-explaining
- Lead with confidence without carrying unnecessary emotional weight
A Practical Framework for Emotional Intelligence Development
Coaching is guided by The I.E.S. System™ of Emotional Intelligence, which enhances leadership through three interconnected capabilities:
Internal Stability to develop the ability to stay grounded and regulated under pressure (self-awareness and self-management).
External Effectiveness to improve communication, reduce friction, and strengthen relationships (social awareness and relationship management).
Sustainable Performance to lead at a high level without burnout or personal life tradeoffs (decision alignment and energy management).
These elements work together in a continuous loop.
As stability increases, effectiveness improves.
As effectiveness improves, leadership becomes sustainable.
The framework provides structure, while coaching stays flexible and human.
Build Leadership Capacity Without Burning Out
Leadership can be deeply satisfying or deeply draining when you’re not supported.
Coaching provides a structured space for engineers to slow down, think clearly, and strengthen their ability to lead under pressure.
This work is practical, grounded, and focused on real situations you face at work and outside it.
We are engineers coaching engineers. We understand engineers’ need for logic, systems, and problem-solving processes.
Our goal is to help you lead with clarity and confidence while staying true to yourself.
Options That Fit Real Schedules
Coaching is available in 1:1 and group formats to fit your preference and goals.
6 Weeks
Weekly 60-minute sessions focused on immediate clarity and momentum.
3 Months
Biweekly 90-minute sessions to deepen skills and apply them over time.
Includes unlimited email support between sessions.
6 Months
Biweekly 90-minute sessions for sustained growth and long-term leadership development.
Includes unlimited email support between sessions and additional monthly strategy sessions to adjust your approach.
Real Wins
Here are some of the benefits you may experience after our emotional intelligence coaching programs
Personal and Professional Growth
With greater emotional intelligence, you’ll build stronger relationships, boost your self-awareness, and handle high-pressure situations with confidence. This growth will not only help you succeed in your career but also bring deeper fulfillment to your personal life.
Smooth and Efficient Teamwork
By enhancing your emotional intelligence, you’ll navigate team dynamics more easily, leading to improved collaboration, fewer misunderstandings, and more efficient project execution. You’ll reduce friction and foster an environment where your team can perform at its best every day.
Greater Impact and Influence
As an emotional intelligence expert, you’ll communicate more effectively, build stronger connections, and become a leader people trust and want to follow. Your influence will reach beyond technical solutions, working harmoniously with others, and greatly impacting your personal life.
Your Coaching Journey
Follow these steps to start
Step 1
Schedule a Video Call
We’ll explore your current situation, goals, and whether EI coaching is the right fit for you.
Step 2
Build Your Coaching Plan
Together we’ll design a tailored path that aligns with your leadership style and professional growth.
Step 3
Lead with Confidence
Step fully into your role as an EI leader who leads with purpose, presence, and lasting impact.
Confidentiality and Fit
Confidentiality is foundational to this work. Everything that is shared in coaching remains private.
You are the right fit for our coaching programs if you:
✓ Are an engineer in a leadership role, or planning on taking one on.
✓ Want to develop emotional intelligence for long-term leadership
✓ Are willing to do the internal work required for growth
✓ Are open to receiving advice and trying new approaches
This clarity safeguards the integrity of the work for everyone involved.
Success
Stories
You Feel At Home
“Claudia does a great job making you feel at home and comfortable from start to finish at her sessions, and you can tell she truly cares and wants to help you.”
Kim O.
Committed
“Claudia is committed to helping people. She has the ability & knowledge to do that. She is gentle in her approach and capable of assisting people.”
ManyAnn L.
Professional
“After working with Claudia, I became more confident. Now, I’m open, relaxed, and receptive when talking with other people. The sessions with Claudia were organized and professional.”
Ava Y.
Meet Your Coach
While working as an engineer, I experienced firsthand the pressure to deliver results.
The load of meetings I had to organize to get my job done, the meetings I had to attend to support others’ projects, and the pressure to work against the clock – to name a few.
I’m an observer. I started noticing the engineers’ frustrations all around. Especially, engineers promoted for technical excellence but not quite prepared to handle the human side of work. Many conflicts and instances of burnout could have been prevented had we all been trained in emotional intelligence.
That’s why I created Kuanima.
To train engineers with the required emotional intelligence skills so they can lead without sacrificing their team’s trust, who they are, or their energy.
Let’s chat if you are an engineer ready to elevate your emotional intelligence.
~Claudia LeBaron Islas
Frequently Asked Questions
Is this coaching therapy?
No. Coaching is focused on present-day challenges and future leadership goals. It does not diagnose or treat mental health conditions and is not a substitute for therapy.
How is coaching different from leadership training?
Leadership training often delivers information in a one-to-many format. Coaching is interactive and personalized. Sessions focus on applying concepts directly to your real work situations, conversations, and decisions.
Do I need to be in a formal leadership role to benefit?
No. Coaching is valuable for engineers at many stages. Emotional intelligence coaching will benefit you whether you are preparing for leadership, newly promoted, or already leading people and projects.
What kinds of issues can we work on in coaching?
Common topics include:
- Difficult or avoided conversations
- Managing conflict and tension
- Decision-making under pressure
- Leading peers or former teammates
- Reducing stress and emotional carryover from work
Coaching adapts to what you are experiencing in real time.
How structured are the sessions?
Sessions are guided but flexible. The IES System™ provides structure, while each session responds to what you bring. This balance keeps conversations grounded and practical.
What is the difference between 1:1 and group coaching?
1:1 coaching offers deep personalization and privacy.
Group coaching adds shared learning, multiple perspectives, and the benefit of hearing how others approach similar challenges. Both formats are designed to support meaningful progress.
How long does it take to see results?
Many clients notice shifts in clarity and emotional steadiness within the first few sessions. Deeper changes in communication and leadership confidence develop over time and with consistent application. We monitor your progress together so you can see and feel the difference.
Can coaching be sponsored by my organization?
Yes. Coaching can be sponsored by employers. Details are handled professionally and confidentially, with clear boundaries around participation and privacy.
What about confidentiality?
Confidentiality is foundational. In 1:1 coaching, conversations remain private. Every session is private and confidential, allowing you to speak freely, explore challenges openly, and grow in a safe and supportive environment. In group coaching, shared agreements are established to support trust and respect within the group.
How do I know if coaching is the right fit?
The best starting point is the free guide, which introduces you to emotional intelligence and explains the approach and philosophy behind the work. From there, you can decide whether coaching aligns with your goals and expectations.
What’s the cost of the program?
Prices vary depending on the coaching format and duration. The investment reflects the depth of transformation and the long-term benefits it will yield. Reach out for alternative options not listed above.
How do you measure success?
We utilize tools such as progress trackers, metrics, and outcome-based check-ins to monitor your growth. You’ll see your development reflected in how you feel, how others respond to you, and how smoothly your relationships flow.
Can I do this even if I’m introverted or not naturally expressive?
Definitely. Emotional intelligence is not about being outgoing; it’s about awareness, intention, and connection.
Where to Start
If you’re interested in coaching, the best first step is to become more familiar with emotional intelligence.
Download the free PDF:
How to Master People Dynamics at Work
A practical guide to introduce you to emotional intelligence, plus six core skills to help you master people dynamics at work so you become the technical leader your team trusts and follows.
